'My Raw Self' -- Musings of a Working Mother.

On the occasion of International Women's day, here is a piece written by an incredibly strong Indian Woman, whose words provide deep insight into the importance of personal well being. Reflective, and inspiring, this piece is sure to resonate with every working woman who constantly does the balancing act of fulfilling her dreams and taking care of her family. 

"Women are natural caregivers and relationship builders.However, in todays time, stress, disappointment or negativity is all too common. Women should work towards shifting to a positive outlook, learning from failures, facing their fears and turning weaknesses into strength.

I have been a working mom for over a decade and a half and i was often caught in a crossfire between the needs of my proffession and the needs of my family.I was scared to take my proffessional dreams higher while raising a young family .Personally i have been very fortunate in that my children made me more creative.They completely redefined my multitasking skills and as a result i could deliver much more than expected.Yes,undoubtedly overcoming adversity can be quite empowering.Finding time to take care of yourself may be the bottom of a working moms list but nuturing oneself is the key component to find time to do it all.If your mind is at ease and your body feels good you are able to do much more for your family and achieve much more at work.

To learn and keep learning is the mantra not to forget.I believe that equipment and technology upgrades are not expenses to be endured. They are necessary reinvestments to protect and enhance the value and to keep you at the leading edge of the proffession with international standards and competent colleagues to achieve your ideal destination across the globe.Insight, experience, dedication and all round client care are a few qualities that earns us the position against many.

My life has been mentally and physically demanding. Running in proffession and caring for a family are two demanding jobs that often seem to be competing against each other.Remaining committed even through hard times,to believe in yourself and cherish the blessings of being a women whom God has given incredible power.

I firmly believe that happy parents equal happy children. My life partner ,who respected my opinions and decisions, held my hand when i faltered, and took pride in the smallest of achievment, inspired me to aim higher, he never stepped back from the promises he made and cherished our relationship.He never let his concern or protective instincts interfere with the freedom and space i needed.He has always been there,is there, and always will be there with a gentle heart.It is our virtues and mutual respect for each other that makes us so special.We in the family should stay united and celebrate each others success and also support each others goals and dreams.

And now to sum up and end it all i would say "Success is all in your attitude. Keep it positive."

At this point of life
‘Practically’ I have no aim
And as a matter of fact
For that I have no shame
I no longer want to be
This or that…
I no longer wish to be
Little bit thin or little bit fat
I now only wish to embrace fully
what I really am
I now only wish to do with great love
whatever little I can
I only want to cherish
My ‘raw self’ as such
I want to speak & write
But without a care what others think
If it was dull or bright   "